How can I be better for you?

“Relationships thrive when needs are met and falter when they’re not.” - Gottman Institute

We don’t need to fully understand WHY our partner needs what they need in order to respect and appreciate it. It should matter to us because it matters to them!

I think a great monthly habit to get in to as a couple is to ask each other “How can I be better for you?” or “What shifts would you like for me to make in order to be a better partner for you?” This can be anything from “Please don’t leave your socks on the floor” to “I’d love to have more quality time with you.”

My husband’s most recent shift request for me… “I really want you to work on being on time.” 🤪